A Look At Pornography |
Now don't hit the mouse because you don't see skin or promises of the ultimate sexual experience! Stop for a moment to think about something, someone important... YOU. Though you may be toying with chat, chat lines, porn sites, improper relationships and all the other stuff designed to compel you to act, or perhaps you have repeated the act compulsively, you should remember that YOU are a person. If any of it could satisfy the need that is driving you, wouldn't it have done so by now? Ask yourself "What do I want?" Ask yourself, "What do they want?" The answers are complex and simple at the same time. You probably have a legitimate need for love and acceptance you are trying to fill with the need with actions you are choosing. They, on the other hand, are interested in your money. Even the free stuff is designed to drive you to the pay services. Unfortunately those who would draw you into pornography do not really have what you are seeking, so they can not fill your need. What causes you to seek pornography or unprofitable relationships? There are alot of reasons. Perhaps you were molested as a child, or abandoned, or deeply emotionally hurt. Most likely you really are trying to fill a legitimate human emotional need in an inappropriate way. Stop for a minute to consider what you really need. Do you need to be loved with all your faults and failures? Are you trying to deal with a past rejection? Have you simply fallen for the misinformation of the world around you? Pornography produces endorphins much like a high produced by drugs. Just like with drugs, you have to have more to achieve the "high." Sex is an integral part of life. Use of porn robs what could be the good parts of life. It defrauds your spouse and actually keeps you from finding what you are seeking. Porn is a mask that keeps you from looking at yourself and your real needs. You are not alone. There are millions of people just like you, struggling with shame and genuine pain in their hearts. They are afraid for their friends, coworkers, spouses, or churches to find out about the darkness within their soul. They just can't bring themselves to confess their darkness so that it can be dealt with. You can be free of porn. You can live in a world of misinformation about sex without someone else or porn controlling you. It all starts with admitting there could be a problem. You can share your story by signing the guest book. |
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